candidablog.com

Anybody using Match.com from NY?

Want the Latest Match.com Coupons Every Month?


Enter your email address below and we'll send you the latest coupon codes every month. We'll even give a lucky person a free 3 month offer.


My question is: Anybody using Match.com from NY?.

My 2nd question is: My boyfriend and I broke up about 2 weeks ago and I was a mess, when I finally said that I wanted to get my things back and that I had his things ready for him, he wouldn't follow through when he said that he would bring it by. So, I went to his house, while there we talked about us and I told him that I wanted to be back with him, he said that we shouldn't jump back into the relationship, that we should take it slow and see where it went, then we kissed or I kissed him but he kissed me back. Tonight he is coming over to hang out and have dinner with me. Does it sound like he wants to get back together or not?..

Comments (6)

Well, he had talked about wanting to grow old with me, having children and marriage with me, and when he asked me if it would be okay if we had dinner with both of our parents, it seemed like everything was going well. the day of the plans with the parents he wanted to cancel and finally told me that he was scared, from there with the last month he became more and more distant and I started asking him what he was thinking about or what he was feeling towards me. He would tell me that he liked me a lot that he liked everything about me that he liked that we always had fun. the day he broke up with me he said that he had a lot of things that he needed to take care of at his house and at his grandmas and I then said that he didn't ask me to come with him to his grandmas anymore and that just started everything. I had asked if he was wanting to break up with me first he said no and then it got to the point that he finally said that it was over...

Comment #1

Kzykt, that's crucial info... He wants a fun relationship (thru Match.com) with no strings attached, he's too scared to follow through with getting married or serious commitment. He's asking you to take it slow, and he doesn't really want a relationship (thru Match.com) that's going anywhere.I'd say it would be different if he told you he was finally ready to step up, but he's not doing that. He's offering to give you back the SAME relationship (thru Match.com) that you thought was unbearable enough to leave. Nothing's changed. He's the same guy with the same fear. You're getting back into the same relationship (thru Match.com) you left, and you should know now what you have to expect...

Comment #2

I know, but I miss him so much. He was my first for everything and I like being with him. And it hurts not to be with him...

Comment #3

Those really aren't good reasons to be with someone. I think you know this.Breakups hurt like hell, no matter how good or bad the guy or the relationship (thru Match.com) is. It doesn't hurt forever...

Comment #4

You say he's your first, you sound very young in your post... why do you want to talk marriage and future at your age?.

How would you even know if you really love this person so much if you have noone/nothing to compare him/your feelings to?.

What's wrong with having fun relationships for the next 7-10 years, assuming you're 16-18? Basically, what is the rush? You will like being with many other men, and breaking up and not being together any more will always hurt a lot. You have the whole life ahead of you to love and to loose and to love again until once you mature and understand what it is you want from life and men you find the person who you'll really want to spend the rest of your life with.

Trust me, BTDT, worn the t-shirt. You will see...

Comment #5

I'm sorry you're hurting, but I agree with the others. Just missing someone isn't a good reason to get back together with them..

Here are some links that may help:.

The Week-by-Week Breakup Survival Guide.

How can I get over him?.

Should You Keep in Touch with Your Exes or Cut Ties?.

Breaking Up Is Hard to Do.

_________________________________________________ Love Boards ~ About Our Boards ~ Customer SupportTech Update ~ iVillage Tour Guide ~ Join the Team _________________________________________________ ..

Comment #6


This question was taken from a support group/message board and re-posted here so others can learn from it.

 

Categories: Home | Aug 2010 - Acne | Aug 2010 - Weight Loss | July 2010 - Weight Loss |

July 2010 - Crohn's Disease | July 2010 - Celiac Disease | June 2010 - Weight Loss | June 2010 - Acne |

May 2010 - Weight Loss | May 2010 - Acne | April 2010 - Weight Loss | Mar 2010 - Weight Loss |

Mar 2010 - Dieting | Mar 2010 - Acne | Feb 2010 - Weight Loss | Feb 2010 - Dieting |

Jan 2010 - Dieting | Jan 2010 - Acne | Jan 2010 - Weight Loss | Dec 2009 - Acne |

Dec 2009 - Dieting | Dec 2009 - Weight Loss | Nov 2009 - Weight Loss | Nov 2009 - Dieting |

Oct 2009 - Dieting | Oct 2009 - Fitness | Oct 2009 - Weight Loss | Sep 2009 - Weight Loss |

Sep 2009 - Dieting | Aug 2009 - Dieting | Aug 2009 - Weight Loss | July 2009 - Weight Loss |

July 2009 - Dieting | Jun 2009 - Weight Loss | June 2009 - Dieting | May 2009 - Weight Loss |

May 2009 - Dieting | April 2009 - Weight Loss | April 2009 - Dieting | March 2009 - Weight Loss |

Feb 2009 - Weight Loss | Jan 2009 - Weight Loss | Dec 2008 - Weight Loss | Dec 2008 - Diet Programs |

Dec 2008 - Dieting | Dec 2008 - Diets | Nov 2008 - Dieting |

 

(C) Copyright 2010 All rights reserved.