Your question was: Any one tried match.com?.
I know this isn't what you want to hear, but I think that his answer about not ruining your friendship was an excuse and that he's not interested in you romantically but didn't want to hurt your feelings and ruin the friendship that way..
If it's hard for you to accept that and see him with other women, you might need to take a break from your friendship until your romantic feelings for him subside..
I know...I have been thinking that I have to move on and possibly break up the friendship until I actually find someone new. Thanks for your opinion!..
Welcome to the board!.
If he feels the same way he should be willing to take some risk. his answers just don't seem to jive. Take some time for yourself and have some girl time. I'm not too sure I'd keep a friendship around like this. Especially if it hurts you to see him with someone else..
If he wants to just be friends then it might be a good idea to distance yourself from him emotionally and physically because it will continue to hurt you to see him with other women. Over time you'll see that you'll be interested in other men who will reciprocate the interest...