Your question was: Any nice women wanting to chat to a 44 year old guy whos disheartenened with match.com?.
...... Total disrespect.... Life is way to short to submit yourself to that treatment! You do not have to be there! Trust, honesty and respect..... we all NEED these attributes in our mates! It certainly does not appear that Clint has them! .
Men can be very disrepcectful animals.... I know.... I am one.... He does not deserve you! Even though it is hard, let him go..... Cry in your pillow if need be, but you DESERVE more respect than what he is showing you. There is no excuse for that treatment.....
Good luck.... There are plenty of fish out there.... Let this one go!.
He is doing things to distance the two of you - as bf and gf. He is making sure that you do not emotionally rely on him to see you before you leave and to call him inthe event of an emergency. It is a very cruel way of setting the tone of the relationship. You could probably do better with another guy. At least one who has a heart. He has many things on his list that he wants to check off before he calls you girlfriend. It is one way of handling dating (online dating with Match.com) - but a little offputting. Most people go into it hoping for the best and as time moves along they make a decision one way or the other - like you said how you "are" at clubs - does that mean that you pick up guys there and he is afraid of that?..
No I don't flirt or pay any attention to any other guys I actually stopped talking o my ex who I was still friends with because he didn't like me talking to them. so I have cut guys out if the picture for him!! He says I'm flirty but I'm a naturally flirty person but not too much not to be disrespectful to him but to be nice! And what I meant by being at the club is because we both dance I dance hip hop and he breakdances so when we go to the club we interact with each other and all of our friends around the dancing circle so he knows how I am around his friends and I'm friends with all of his friends!!..
Oh, now I understand - he knows how you are so he should feel comfortable about it - I get it..
I think it is a shame that you have cut guys out of the picture for him but he is making sure to keep some space between the two of you and not be there for you emotionally when it counts. If you permit this..you'll never feel as though the relationship (thru Match.com) consists of two people - just him steering things the way he wants it. If he wants you to jump through hoops to prove you are "worthy" to be his gf then you might want to reconsider this guy a bf...