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Are there any Match.com discount codes for 2011? I'm looking to start online dating this year, and looking for any current promotions..

I also have another situation... I met a wonderful man and we hit it off right away and spent a lot of time together sharing our lives, meeting friends, and meeting coworkers. He pursued me by calling, texting and setting up the dates. After a month I did tell him "I really like you" but never mentioned the "L" word or anything about marriage or children. The only negative in our dating (online dating with Match.com) was that we both have family members with a shared genetic illness Well, after two months, he brought up to me that he wanted to be my boyfriend and for us not to see other people. Of course I was thrilled! A few dates later he asked to see my hometown so we went to see it and have dinner with my mom.

After a few more texts (where he apologized for freaking out), I haven't had contact with him in over two months. I believe it was too much too soon..but I still care about him. Should I contact him ever again or just move on..I don't want to pursue him...

Thanks,.

Marie..

Comments (4)

Yup, you can get 20% off when you sign up for a Match.com account right now. Just click here for this 20% discount.

As for your scenario.... people don't forget that they like you. It is not necessary to remind him that you are still there. I have learned over the years that: people who want to be in my life, will be. Its not necessary for me to 'convince' them why they should want to.  I am one to give benefit of the doubt more often than not - however, given the limited time invested here - and the very weak way he broke up with you - I'd say you dodged a bullet.

That said, men who know what they want are intentional and deliberate in taking steps to get it. He took an easy way out - it is better than just disappearing without a trace, but barely - you guys had been dating (online dating with Match.com) for a while - this says to me that he was less concerned about your feelings than he was about his in breaking up with you.

Secondly, WHEN a man knows what he wants, he will make a bee-line straight to it without prompting. You left the door open - he has to decide to go through.  And you have to decide to move on regardless. Remember, what will be will be - live as though you will not see him again, because you may not. I suspect he is a bit ashamed of how poorly he handled it. He needs to mature some.

Ask yourself this - do I really want someone who didn't care or respect me enough to tell me it's over in person? Hon, you deserve better - chooose it..

Toni..

Comment #1

Tonitoons hit the mark with her reply to your post.  It would be wise to stop caring about a coward who is very selfish about hurting someone's feelings.  Let him go and wallow - you having living to do...

Comment #2

Hi Marie,.

What a drag.  Sounds like you handled this relationship (thru Match.com) pretty well.  I think you are forgetting that he asked to see you hometown and meet your family.  If it was too fast too soon.  It was his fault.  I think you were really reasonable and open minded to give him some time to think.  Him disappearing isn't cool.  I agree that it was cowardly. .

Move on and find someone that deserves you..

Best of luck.

Comment #3

 I agree. You shouldn't pursue him. He's the one that freaked out. He's the one who has to prove that he does want a relationship, not you.  I think you need to put some effort into trying to meet others. If he comes around, you'll decide what to do then. Good luck..

Comment #4


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