Your question was: Am I just wasting my time with Match.com?.
What was the last thing you said to one another, and when was it?..
That happens all the time in OLD...there's no explaining it, just let it go and move on..
Well he called as usuall in the am to wish me a 'good morning' said he will call latter that night ,as usuall after dinner n he didnt so I text him the next afternoon all I texted was 'hi i missed talking to you last night' n I get a wierd message like...'carefull with the texting kids are using phone''n I'm thinking didnt he say his kids have their own cell phones,i also checked he is certainly divorced so that cant be the issue..... guess I'm just mad at myself for not seeing him to be the scam that he really is...oh well!.
Have a fun labor day weekend..
Hey there sheri,.
I guess your right. why do people play such games? isnt life way too short to be playing games with peoples' lives like this? I guess I'm an idealist.... I guess it is what it is and it's all good..
Well you have a great labor day weekend.
Yep, but you can't control what other people do or how they chose to live their lives! You just have to continue to live by your own values and principles and let their actions roll off you. It is frustrating but less so if you don't try to figure it out..
You have a good holiday weekend as well!.
Who knows? Unless it's a true awful emergency there's no excuse for not at least shooting you a quick email or text..
It's upsetting, yes. But if this is what he's like now imagine what it would be like later!.
You've done what you can. The next move is up to him.